Marriage is not easy but it's worth all the energy and effort you but into it. To be honest our first year of marriage was very very rocky I didn't actually think we would even make it past it. It was filled with lots of arguing, disagreements, and a lot of "you this, "you that", it's your fault", "you", "you", "you", It was never "I". But through all the ups & downs we made it work. In my opinion what makes a marriage successful is being able to trust each other, being honest with each other, leaving your pride out the door, being respectful, being sweet, saying I love you as much as you can (we seriously say I love you about 20 times a day), never letting yourself get too comfortable, and no matter what always putting one another first.
with that being said, I want to wish us both a very Happy 4 Years of marriage.
I love you to infinity & beyond.